goes a long way for me!It really comes as astounding to me when I really objectively take a look not only at myself but at those around me, that everyone is beautifully and wonderfully made so differently. Everyone has a way that they need to be loved in order for them to feel security and comfort. As for me, I have just come to realize how just a few words of encouragement very much so goes a long way!
Mark Twain once said “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” Verbal appreciation speaks powerfully to persons whose primary Love Language is “Words of... Affirmation.” Simple statements, such as, “You look great in that suit,” or “You must be the best baker in the world! I love your oatmeal cookies,” are sometimes all a person needs to hear to feel loved. Aside from verbal compliments, another way to communicate through “Words of Affirmation” is to offer encouragement. Here are some examples: reinforcing a difficult decision; calling attention to progress made on a current project; acknowledging a person’s unique perspective on an important topic. If a loved one listens for “Words of Affirmation,” offering encouragement will help him or her to overcome insecurities and develop greater confidence.
-Live Productively
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